Current:Home > StocksSuzanne Somers' death has devastated fans. It's OK to grieve. -ValueMetric
Suzanne Somers' death has devastated fans. It's OK to grieve.
View
Date:2025-04-16 07:58:17
Suzanne Somers has died at the age of 76, and the loss has been felt among fans around the world.
"Devastated to hear about the passing of Suzanne Somers," @marc_k011 wrote on X, formerly known as Twitter. "A true icon and overall amazing human being."
"I'm truthfully devastated with the death of Suzanne Somers. She was a great actress, but had a deeper heart in life," @MichaelKerner20 wrote. "She was a sweetheart!!!"
Grief is different for everyone, and experts say mourning someone you didn't personally know − a phenomenon called collective or public grief − is a complicated, yet valid, experience.
"Collective and public grief, as I call it, is always unique in how we attach," David Kessler, grief expert and founder of Grief.com, previously told USA TODAY.
This form of grief can be further compounded when the death of a beloved public figure is read about unexpectedly in the news.
"When people experience sudden loss, they may feel shocked, disbelief, confused, and even in denial," Shavonne Moore-Lobban, licensed psychologist, previously told USA TODAY. "The suddenness of the loss may be too much to process and feel too unreal for a person to immediately grasp."
More:Suzanne Somers, star of 'Three's Company' and 'Step by Step,' dead at 76
Why we get attached to strangers
Somers' longtime publicist, R. Couri Hay, shared a statement on behalf of the actress' family with the news Sunday. The actress, who "survived an aggressive form" of breast cancer for over 23 years, "passed away peacefully at home in the early morning hours" on Sunday," the statement read.
"Sudden loss can be more shocking and people can feel less 'prepared' than they might with expected loss," Moore-Lobban added. "However, it is still hard to prepare for anything that is life-altering, whether a person knew it was coming."
More:The Titanic submersible passengers have died. It's OK to grieve.
Many have parasocial relationships with those in the public eye, be it celebrities, politicians, news anchors. You feel close to them like they're your friend or relative.
Just because collective or public grief doesn't match how one might grieve someone close to them, that doesn't make the experience any less real.
"It's a fascinating thing that people don't realize we really can grieve people we didn't know," Kessler added. "And it doesn't mean we're going to grieve them like our spouse or mother, father, or sister or child, but we will grieve them."
More:Lisa Marie Presley, Grant Wahl, Stephen 'tWitch' Boss and the trauma of a sudden death
How to help someone who may be grieving
If you're trying to comfort someone going through loss, don't try to minimize it or put a timetable to the grieving process.
"There is no limit to grief and because it is a cycle or process, it will continue as long as it needs to for the person who is experiencing it," Moore-Lobban said.
If you're going through loss yourself, talk about it. This "might mean acknowledging it and being open with someone you trust, about how you are feeling," Moore-Lobban said. "It might also include engaging in therapy with a mental health provider, which can be individual or group therapy. Talking about it can also occur by writing, meaning a person can journal about how they feel and what they are thinking."
The deaths of public figures may also serve as opportunities to widen discussions on grief.
"We have a relationship with death that we don't quite know how to explore as a society," Kessler said. "I always tell people the death rate is 100%. So we know we're all going to die someday, intellectually, but we don't know, is death the great enemy? Is it the great comforter, when we're in pain? We sort of don't know how to hold it."
Suzanne Somers dies at 76:Barry Manilow, Viola Davis, Khloe Kardashian mourn 'Step by Step' actress
Contributing: David Oliver and Pamela Avila
veryGood! (18957)
Related
- Former Milwaukee hotel workers charged with murder after video shows them holding down Black man
- Ernesto intensifies into Category 1 hurricane north of Puerto Rico
- FTC ban on noncompete agreements comes under legal attack
- Officer due in court on murder charges in shooting of pregnant Black woman accused of shoplifting
- Kourtney Kardashian Cradles 9-Month-Old Son Rocky in New Photo
- Katy Perry's new music video investigated by Balearic Islands' environmental ministry
- Tyra Banks Teases New Life-Size Sequel With Lindsay Lohan
- Trump's campaign office in Virginia burglarized, authorities searching for suspect
- Civic engagement nonprofits say democracy needs support in between big elections. Do funders agree?
- It Ends With Us’ Justin Baldoni Hires Crisis PR Manager Amid Feud Rumors
Ranking
- Why we love Bear Pond Books, a ski town bookstore with a French bulldog 'Staff Pup'
- 'A bad situation did not get worse': Enraged bull euthanized after escaping slaughterhouse
- Olympic Runner Rose Harvey Reveals She Finished Paris Race With a Broken Leg
- Breaking Down the Wild B-Girl Raygun Conspiracy Theories After Her Viral 2024 Olympics Performance
- Bet365 ordered to refund $519K to customers who it paid less than they were entitled on sports bets
- Halle Berry recalls 10 injuries over action movie career: 'I've been knocked out 3 times'
- 'AGT' returns with death-defying stunts that earn Sofía Vergara's Golden Buzzer
- VP candidates Walz and Vance manage their money very differently. Advisers weigh in.
Recommendation
Behind on your annual reading goal? Books under 200 pages to read before 2024 ends
Turnout in Wisconsin election tops 26%, highest in 60 years for fall primary in presidential year
Agents seize nearly 3,000 pounds of meth hidden in celery at Georgia farmers market
Why should an employee be allowed to resign instead of being fired? Ask HR
Man can't find second winning lottery ticket, sues over $394 million jackpot, lawsuit says
Sister Wives Season 19 Trailer Shows Kody Brown's Relationships Unravel After Marrying Wrong Person
‘Lab-grown’ meat maker files lawsuit against Florida ban
Georgia officials say Kennedy, 2 others have signatures for presidential ballot as disputes remain